4 Best Dating Books for Black Men

Modern dating in the 21st century is a challenge if you don’t have the correct information. It’s also more difficult as a black man because we have additional obstacles to overcome in the dating game.

Brothas often have the best game out of all men but we are also criticized and judged the most. Women expect our game to be on point and if you are lacking, then you’ve already struck out.

If you are struggling to approach women and dealing with constant rejection, then it’s time to gain wisdom from some of the best playas in the world.

Here are the best dating books for black men that cater to our specific needs and speak directly to us. All these books were written by black men who worked on their game and reached an elite level of dating success.

Pimpology: The 48 Laws of the Game

Written by legendary Pimpin Ken, Pimpology is probably my favorite dating & relationships book of all time. It’s written from a completely honest perspective as Pimpin’ Ken relives his former days working as a pimp through the United States. He shares a story along with a lesson for each law and the book is well written and on point. This book will improve your game with women and help you reach your full potential.

The Elite Way

Tariq Nasheed published a great book on how to improve your game in all facets of life: health, money, women, social life and everything else. This book is more like a motivational speech than just a regular pickup guide.

Nice Guys and Players: Becoming the Man Women Want

Rom Wills published an extremely helpful guide to describes one of the biggest mistakes men make with modern women: being too nice. He shares helpful advice and strategies on how to get rid of the “Nice Guy Syndrome” and transform yourself into an attractive playa who has options with women.

Mode One: Let The Women Know What You’re Really Thinking

If you ever struggled with women, maybe it’s because you haven’t been completely honest with your intentions. Alan Roger Currie shares his personal story on how he went from hiding his true feelings from women to being 100% upfront with the women in his life. This book shows you how to keep it real and attract women by being honest.

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    • I read most of these books when I was younger and new to the game. If you’re not ready for marriage, then dating is the best alternative. Of course, you can focus on yourself, get rich and then the women will be chasing you!