How to Get a Colombian Girlfriend

Colombian women are some of the hottest women in South America and I had the pleasure of living in Colombia for over 6 months to get a good feel for the culture, lifestyle and beautiful Colombian women.

In this guide, I’m going to share with you everything you need to know before you get Colombian girlfriend and get into a relationship. You’ll need to know some important things about the country, culture, language and certain do’s and don’ts.

Meeting Colombian Women

There are some Colombian girls sprinkled throughout western countries like the USA but they are in short supply and heavy demand. Most Colombian girls in the USA will be wifed up so your best bet is to go straight to the source and book a trip to Colombia.

I’ve been all over Colombia and my top ranked cities are: Cartagena, Cali, and Medellin. These 3 cities give you the best overall choice for finding a decent GF but you can try some other off the beaten path cities like Quibdo or Buenaventura if you’re looking places to meet AfroColombian women in particular.

Colombian girls speak Spanish so you better start practicing now if you want to get a sweet, non-feminazi Colombiana who will treat you like a king. Barely any girls spoke English in Colombia and it seemed like most of the English speaking girls were slightly unattractive (possibly due to western Matrix exposure). Learn Spanish right now by picking up a simple phrasebook or even hiring a private tutor.

Now, I know a lot of fellas don’t want to bother learning a 2nd language but you will limit your options if you don’t speak any. You don’t need to be fluent.  Just learning a couple words & phrases will go a long way.

Before your trip, I recommend you chat up a few Colombian girls to practice your Spanish a bit and test the waters. ColombianCupid is the best overall dating sites for finding a girlfriend because the girls on there are looking for foreign boyfriends and husbands. Tinder is popular in Colombia but you don’t want to seriously date any of the girls on those apps.

Depending on your tastes, you can try searching for girls based on the city you plan to visit. Here’s a general breakdown of girls based on their city:

  • White Colombian Girls: Bogota & Medellin
  • Black Colombian Girls (Aka Afro-Colombian): Quibdo, Buenaventura, Cali and Cartagena
  • Brown Colombian Girls (Morenas): Cali, Barranquilla, and Medellin

Medellin is extremely popular (for good reason) while Cartagena, Cali and even Bogota are great choices. Keep changing the city until you find what you are looking for. Colombia is extremely multi-cultural and girls look very different based on their location. Colombianas come in all different colors and shades.

Staying in Touch

Google Translate will be your best friend when chatting up a Colombian girl in Spanish. You can use several different apps to get to know her and keep in touch:

First, you’ll need to ask her for her local Colombia number, which begins with +57 country code.

Add the number to your contacts then search for her using any of the social networking apps above.

Not only is it easy to chat with her, but you can do free internet voice calls to get to know her better.

Visiting Your Girlfriend

Sooner or later, you need to actually visit Colombia and meet the women you chatted up on ColombianCupid. Or you can simply hit up the girls you met online when you arrive and still keep your eyes open for a local Colombian girl to cuff. Either way, you must take action and book that ticket!

Flights to Colombia are affordable from major US cities like NYC, Atlanta and Miami. Check the prices for flights to Cartagena, Medellin or Bogota and see where you can get the best deals. Once you arrive in Colombia, you can get around via cheap flights or take the bus to certain adjacent cities.

Colombian girls are over affectionate and she will probably smoother you with attention once you finally meet. This behavior is completely normal in Latin culture so don’t think she’s acting fake or too sweet to you. After living in the western matrix for a while, I wasn’t used to the different behavior shown by Latina Women. It’s normal. Enjoy the ride.

Taking Care of Your Colombian GF

Colombia is a fast growing economy and many girls have decent jobs or go to university and plan to make decent money once they graduate. The cost of living is pretty low so most girls don’t ask you for a lot of money. They will be happy if you take them to lunch or buy them a small yet thoughtful gift. It’s nothing like SE Asia or Africa when it comes to providing for your GF.

Now, Colombian women know local guys are players and she will expect you to be interested in other women. It’s actually normal for guys to have multiple girlfriends and the girls simply put up with it. It’s up to you what you want to do on the side in your relationship but realize you have the green light as opposed to things back home. You won’t be arrested or verbally assaulted for having multiple girlfriends.

Colombian women are extremely jealous but they aren’t crazy possessive psychos either. It’s best to live alone so you can do whatever you want. If you live with your Colombian girlfriend, then you won’t have as much freedom.


Colombia is a fun, vibrant country with good food, low cost of living, great natural scenery and beautiful women. Getting a Colombian girlfriend will add a lot of fun and excitement to your trip but take your time and don’t date the first girl you meet. Use the tips above and you will be a lot safer and avoid common mistakes in the process.

Create a ColombianCupid profile now and chat up some girls before your trip. Let me know if you have any questions or comments below.

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  1. Great article. I just took my second and possibly last trip to the DR and will be aiming to visit Medellin for the first time later this year. I know people who swear by Colombia so I look forward to it.